Girlfriend’s Guide to Feng Shui: Is He the Real Deal or Just a ‘One Nightstand’?

If you’re wondering if your guy (or gal) is ready to take the next step in your relationship, I have everything you need to know. Skip the medicine cabinet. It’s all sitting right out in the open. You just need to know what to look for. A quick glance around the bedroom and you’ll know everything you need to know with these quick tips.


This is the tell tale sign to know whether he’s wanting a relationship, or just uhh a one night stand. That’s right, he’ll have just one nightstand. Can it really be that simple? Yes actually. Nightstands tell you everything about a person and how they relate to others in relationship.

Having one nightstand can also signal the need to be in control. And if the bed is pushed up against the wall to where you have to get through him to get to your side, then you can guess what’s in store for the relationship.


Artwork can tell you a lot, especially in the bedroom. It’s basically a snapshot of our subconscious mind that speaks in imagery.

Images of iconic Hollywood women are a sign that he’s into the fantasy of a relationship or enjoying his bachelorhood.

Are there images that contain 3’s, for example, three women or three birds? This is a sign that he’s not ready to commit. Images of 1’s are honestly not that great either, but there’s hope that he’s ready to expand.


Pictures or memorabilia from exes sitting around… well it doesn’t take a feng shui master to figure this one out, just a good friend to tell you the truth. He’s not over her yet!


Who’s the fairest of them all? Hopefully you, but that might not be all. That is, if the mirror is across from the bed. A mirror across from the bed is a sign of a third party relationship. The only question is if you’re #2 or #3.


The baseball card collection, trophies displayed from junior high, or matchbox cars lined up on the shelf. Collections are a crying out of unhealed issues from childhood. Here’s a tip: You can’t fix ‘em.


If he’s still using his dresser from childhood or other significant furnishings or décor items, he’s still got some growing up to do and probably looking for a mother too.


Does he have a workstation in the bedroom? If so, you’ll be competing with his career.

Of course, all these tips apply to you too. You did attract this person into your life. Take a look around your bedroom to see what energy you’re sending out. Maybe you’re the one attracting the one nightstand after all.

TISHA-MORRISTisha Morris is the best-selling author of Decorating With the Five Elements of Feng Shui (Llewellyn 2015), Mind Body Home: Transform Your Life One Room at a Time (Llewellyn 2012), Feng Shui Your Life: The Quick Guide to DeclutteringYour Home and Renewing Your Life (Turner Publishing 2010). Tisha is based in Los Angeles where she works with homes and business and facilitates trainings. To learn more, visit Earth Home with Tisha Morris.



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